How to Become a Great Conversationalist

Whether you are  online or offline, first impressions are made of first conversations. And while we understand that becoming a great conversationalist is an art,  it certainly isn’t impossible.

So what makes someone a good conversationalist? Relationship expert Matthew Hussey explains:

Impress your next date using Matthew’s tips:

1) Get out of your head. Don’t be inside your own head thinking too much. You want to be expressing opinions and talking about the things going on around you.

2) Pay attention. Pay attention to what’s happening around you. What clothes are people wearing? Is there a pattern to what people are doing? Is it quiet? Is it loud? Is there anything weird happening?

3) Have opinions. Opinions give other people license to talk and are a great way to evoke responses from other people. Have opinions of things going on around you. They also help get people out of their heads.

Conversations are the building blocks of any relationship. Now that you have a foundation, it’s time to start conversing! Visit and break the ice using our conversation starters.

Read the full article on Matthew’s blog, Get the Guy

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